Ok, I see some of you rolling your eyes (you know who you are). We’ve all seen diet bloggers say it: you’re an adult, don’t indulge in delusions! Change your mindset and you don’t need tricks. Blah blah blah.
Personally, I think whatever works for YOU is the important thing. After all, the goal is to lose the weight and begin on a healthier eating plan. What works for one person may not work for another. We all have our own issues and lifestyles to deal with and even people who swear they won’t succumb to trickery, have their own little “methods” of doing things that would fall in that category. And sometimes changing your mindset needs a little help.
I’ve never been a dieting kind of person. I’ve been a large person since the day I was born. But I’m currently on a weight loss plan that is more of a medical mandate than a choice: lose weight and lower salt intake and feel better, or continue as you are and maybe be back in the hospital. I chose to abandon the weight.
My therapist had originally set a goal of 50 pounds to lose. I’m down 85 pounds as of right now and have decided to just go on ahead for the 100 mark. The method I chose was basic calorie counting. Hey, you with the eye rolling. Stop it. I found some things that made the process easier for me. Perhaps it might help someone else with their goals.
Smaller Dishes
Yeah, silly, right? I’d read about this in magazine articles and yes, I rolled my eyes. But it really does help a bit. If you have a large bowl or plate you tend to want to fill it up. And it distorts your perception of what a “serving” is. Instead of using a 10 inch plate I went to a 7 inch (or smaller). I also stopped with the “use a big bowl to allow for stirring” mentality and went to “use a bowl that fits the serving.” I’m better able to eyeball a serving in the smaller container. Which brings me to:
Weights and Measures
Weigh. Count. Measure. It’s such a pain in the tukus!! But this is probably the second most useful thing I do. When you start keeping tabs, you will see that your perception of a “serving” and an actual serving are very different. Take pasta: A single cup of cooked pasta is a serving. Now visualize a pasta dinner at a restaurant. Those things are more like 2 or 4 servings.
After you weigh and measure awhile you get a better idea of what a serving is. But don’t stop weighing and measuring. Over time your perception changes again and you’re eating 2 servings instead of one.
Weighing with a scale is better than using cups. With weight, you always know EXACTLY how much you have.
Prepare, Divide, Conquer
All these “portion controlled” foods are great if you just can’t deal with weighing and measuring. But I’m kind of cheap when it comes right down to it, and I can’t bring myself to pay the extra for those things. The per ounce price of the portion controlled food is significantly higher. So I buy value packs and things on sale and make my own individual servings.
The thing to do is portion out the food as soon as you open the package. Don’t think you’ll have some now and portion it later. You won’t. Just spend the time to portion it out and put it in individual baggies or containers. Then when you need to grab something quick, it’s all done for you.
Research and Interest
If you’re serious about managing your weight, it’s a life change. It’s not something you do for awhile then stop. So you might as well have some fun with it. Research foods. Find ones you might like that are low in calories (or fit in your diet plan). The internet is the dieter’s friend!
Be interested in trying foods you may have viewed with disdain before. I used to despise yogurt. But now I can’t get enough of it. It serves as my dairy, a snack food, and a pretty good substitute for ice cream when it’s frozen. Fat free foods have come a long way, too. I actually prefer the fat free salad dressing and I can use enough to coat my salad without using up half a day’s calories.
Read food blogs written by people following a healthy lifestyle. Don’t discount trying anything. You might find it’s a valuable addition to your new eating plan.
Bite It, Then Write It
Write down every morsel of food you put into your mouth. I mean it. Just doing this alone may clue you in to why you’ve gained a few surprise pounds. The simple act of recording your food and calories will make you stop and think before you take that extra roll.
You can use paper and pencil for this but there are also a ton of websites out there that let you make a food log. Some are free and some are not.
I happen to use “My Plate” at Livestrong.com. Their food database is outstanding and has most any food I have wanted to add to my log. And if they don’t have it, you can add it. It’s free for the basic usage plus they have forums and articles. But be warned about their forums: the users there are often an opinionated bunch and will tell you if they think your plan is stupid (to them). But make your own decisions. If your diet plan is working for you and you are staying healthy and eating a balanced diet then it’s not stupid.
Cheat
Yep. I said it. Cheat. It won’t kill you. It won’t destroy all you’ve done. As a matter of fact, I’ve found a bit of cheating makes me stick to it. Now I’m not suggesting you go eat a whole chocolate cake washed down with 2 liters of Cherry soda. But one day a week allow yourself to eat what you want without weighing, measuring, counting calories or thinking about fat.
I usually cheat with pizza which is kind of a no-no for me all around. But I’ve found that now, one or two slices of pizza will be enough to make me feel decadent. And most of the time I don’t even blow my calorie count! I order a thin crust veggie style pizza with light (as in less of it) sauce and light cheese. In my past I could have eaten a whole medium size. Now two pieces is almost too much.
The cheating keeps you from feeling deprived if you are avoiding sweets or pizza or some other fun food. And one day a week won’t kill the diet. Some suggest that after you’ve been dieting awhile, a cheat day may actually kick start your metabolism so that you start losing again if you have hit a plateau.
In Conclusion
Don’t think of your weight loss program as a diet, or something that is depriving you. Think of it as a change of lifestyle and a new chapter. The minute it becomes an onerous chore, you’ll stop.
Don’t be discouraged if you don’t drop pounds and pounds all at once. Slow and steady wins the race. One to two pounds a week is outstanding. Some weeks you won’t lose anything at all. That’s just the mystery of the body.
It’s always best to consult with your doctor before starting on any weight loss plan. He can advise you on safe goals to set for yourself. And make your goals realistic! If you want to lose 100 pounds, start with 20. Then set the next goal and the next. A large goal seems never ending. A smaller one gives more rewards!
Enjoy your new lifestyle. Enjoy finding and exploring new foods. And if trickery works for you, go for it!! After awhile you won’t need the tricks.
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